Last night in PrePaired’s weekly discussion group we talked about several interesting dating topics. Especially The friendship bucket discussion revealed different views among the girls.
The question for all of you to comment on is…
After how many dates will you place him or her in the friendship bucket if nothing happens? Why?
One girl said that after three dates he is placed in the friendship bucket. The reason: she doesn’t want to waste her time.
Another girl said that the number probably was five.
The guys were surprised. They hadn’t heard this before, but this piece of information could definitely help them in their dating adventures.
At PrePaired we also aim to create an environment where individuals successfully push boundaries to see what they can achieve. Therefore, we have the PrePaired Challenges every week.
This means that we all define – with the group members’ help – what we would like to improve and then try to do just that. The following week we rock up and tell the group about our experiences and get feedback. For example, was the outcome the one we wanted and if not, what could we have done differently?
One guy was going to approach a girl and compliment her on her manicure. He managed to compliment her on her nails, but due to nervousness he then said “I’m just kidding”. It didn’t lead to his aim: a date.
However, he is going to try to do something he’s never done before next Wednesday. He will approach a girl he finds attractive on the street and this time a date might be the outcome.
One girl has no problem starting a conversation with a guy – on a friendship level. She will try to flirt with a guy by doing something she has never done before. She will look into a guy’s eyes and smile from a distance and then give him a second glance and smile again.
You’ll find out next Wednesday if not earlier how it went. We have more challenges to be revealed in coming blogs, so check the blog regularly and share dating experiences.
Together we can be PrePaired.
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